stfusexists:

saintstrychnine:

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ruubzway:

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dwarf-of-middle-earth:

stfusexists:

How To Be a Sexist Asshole, by Carl Ludwig Sherburne:
Post a gross, creepy rape “joke.”
When confronted by people asking that the picture be removed - statistically some of whom are most likely rape victims - don’t remove it.
In addition to not removing it, announce your desire to see it go viral to “piss [people] off more.”
How To Be an Asshole, By 1,416 People Who “Liked” This
Approve of this shitty behavior. 

How to be a humorless soul sucking cunt.
1. Make this post in the first place.

Bro, if the existence of your soul depends on being able to make and/or laugh at rape jokes without me saying something, you need to reevaluate everything about yourself. Literally everything. 

Making jokes about Rape is entirely different to Raping somebody. You need to reevaluate the things that make you angry. Go and find a REAL injustice, maybe target somebody who ACTUALLY raped somebody.

If I had a dollar for every time I had to provide some jackass with this link, I would be wealthy enough to retire to an island where none of you assholes would even be allowed.

AND THERE’S A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN NOT DONATING TO A WOMEN’S ORGANISATION AND FUCKING RAPING SOMEONE.Seriously. The joke may have been in poor taste, but that’s no reason to tell someone that just because they have a wider sense of humour than you that they need to “reevaluate everything about themselves”Do you have any idea how close minded that makes you look? That you can’t accept that some people might actually have the right to express a point of view that’s different to yours to the point where you feel it necessary to revoke their status as a stable human being?If you don’t like the joke, then don’t laugh at it. People’s senses of humour are their own business, and you have no right to tell them what they can laugh at.

Oh my god. You people are the biggest bunch of cry babies I have ever come across. No one is stifling your opinion, or your precious right to make a joke out of rape. You can still do all those things, and I can still call you an asshole. Because you’re acting like an asshole.
The point of the study is that exposure to rape jokes normalizes sexism, and prompts men to be less sympathetic to the experiences of women. (Example: dudebro who whines about the persecution he experienced at the hands of mean anons after talking about hilarious rape jokes are sees no problem calling me a cunt unprovoked.)
And let’s be real - if you are going to lose your shit because people are daring to talk about the implication of sexist jokes in a social and cultural context, you have absolutely no leg to stand on when it comes to calling people oversensitive. You need to settle down because you are making a complete fool of yourself. 

stfusexists:

saintstrychnine:

stfusexists:

ruubzway:

stfusexists:

dwarf-of-middle-earth:

stfusexists:

How To Be a Sexist Asshole, by Carl Ludwig Sherburne:

  1. Post a gross, creepy rape “joke.”
  2. When confronted by people asking that the picture be removed - statistically some of whom are most likely rape victims - don’t remove it.
  3. In addition to not removing it, announce your desire to see it go viral to “piss [people] off more.”

How To Be an Asshole, By 1,416 People Who “Liked” This

  1. Approve of this shitty behavior. 

How to be a humorless soul sucking cunt.

1. Make this post in the first place.

Bro, if the existence of your soul depends on being able to make and/or laugh at rape jokes without me saying something, you need to reevaluate everything about yourself. Literally everything. 

Making jokes about Rape is entirely different to Raping somebody. You need to reevaluate the things that make you angry. Go and find a REAL injustice, maybe target somebody who ACTUALLY raped somebody.

If I had a dollar for every time I had to provide some jackass with this link, I would be wealthy enough to retire to an island where none of you assholes would even be allowed.

AND THERE’S A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN NOT DONATING TO A WOMEN’S ORGANISATION AND FUCKING RAPING SOMEONE.
Seriously. The joke may have been in poor taste, but that’s no reason to tell someone that just because they have a wider sense of humour than you that they need to “reevaluate everything about themselves”
Do you have any idea how close minded that makes you look? That you can’t accept that some people might actually have the right to express a point of view that’s different to yours to the point where you feel it necessary to revoke their status as a stable human being?
If you don’t like the joke, then don’t laugh at it. People’s senses of humour are their own business, and you have no right to tell them what they can laugh at.

Oh my god. You people are the biggest bunch of cry babies I have ever come across. No one is stifling your opinion, or your precious right to make a joke out of rape. You can still do all those things, and I can still call you an asshole. Because you’re acting like an asshole.

The point of the study is that exposure to rape jokes normalizes sexism, and prompts men to be less sympathetic to the experiences of women. (Example: dudebro who whines about the persecution he experienced at the hands of mean anons after talking about hilarious rape jokes are sees no problem calling me a cunt unprovoked.)

And let’s be real - if you are going to lose your shit because people are daring to talk about the implication of sexist jokes in a social and cultural context, you have absolutely no leg to stand on when it comes to calling people oversensitive. You need to settle down because you are making a complete fool of yourself. 

Patriarchy has always seen love as women’s work, degraded and devalued labor. And it has not cared when women failed to learn how to love, for patriarchal men have been the most willing to substitute care for love, submission for respect. We did not need a feminist movement to let us know that females are more likely to be concerned with relationships, connection, and community than are males. Patriarchy trains us for this role. We do not need feminist movement to remind us again and again that love cannot exist in a context of domination, that the love we seek cannot be found as long as we are bound and not free.
Merf. Thinking is Hard.: [TW: Rape, Domestic Violence] Addressing Misogyny within the APIA Community

gabrielarising:

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This past weekend, I had the opportunity to attend the Midwest Asian American Student Union Conference in Minneapolis. It was, overall, a wonderful conference where I met some very progressive people of color and activists. I was also able to help conduct a successful…

Men, Women Are Not That Into You

stfusexists:

This is an amazing article about the consistent over-perception of women’s interest by men. Just a warning though - this was the first time I ever read something on Clutch, and I ended up spending an hour clicking over to other articles. Enter at your own risk, this site is awesome.

Local business that sells modded game controllers has girl gamer month event on Facebook.

One of the events is to do a meme on the concept of girl gamer. Best submission gets a free controller with a design that’s kinda neat.

I check event page to see the submissions. Some are alright, but then with some…

Holy shit, it’s a garbage truck of fat shaming and slut shaming! Gol-ly, I’m so surprised.

I’m thinking: I want to outdo them. Besides, I need my own controller in the event my brother stashes his away.

ofthebrokenheartedangel:

Awesome protests erupted in my school today. Our student council planned a “fun” game for valentines day. They handed out paper hearts to every girl at the beginning of the day. Only the girls. If a girl speaks to a guy through the duration of the day, she has to give him her heart. Guys get five raffle tickets for every heart they collect. Girls cannot collect hearts, they only have one to give away, and guys do not have to give away anything. A gay male asked for a heart to give away to participate and was told no.
Some girls have taken this as an invitation to say things such as, quoted from twitter, “keeping the whores from talking today haha.” And boasting about “keeping their heart and not being a whore.” This has turned into an excuse to shame each other for talking to guys. And for what? A valentines game?
Rather than writing their names on the hearts and giving them away, many girls have written notes of protest on the paper hearts and are wearing them proudly as they associate with whoever they please and refuse to give the heart away.
Proud of some of the people in my school today.

ofthebrokenheartedangel:

Awesome protests erupted in my school today. Our student council planned a “fun” game for valentines day. They handed out paper hearts to every girl at the beginning of the day. Only the girls. If a girl speaks to a guy through the duration of the day, she has to give him her heart. Guys get five raffle tickets for every heart they collect. Girls cannot collect hearts, they only have one to give away, and guys do not have to give away anything. A gay male asked for a heart to give away to participate and was told no.

Some girls have taken this as an invitation to say things such as, quoted from twitter, “keeping the whores from talking today haha.” And boasting about “keeping their heart and not being a whore.” This has turned into an excuse to shame each other for talking to guys. And for what? A valentines game?

Rather than writing their names on the hearts and giving them away, many girls have written notes of protest on the paper hearts and are wearing them proudly as they associate with whoever they please and refuse to give the heart away.

Proud of some of the people in my school today.

(Source: flawless-impurity)

sexistfacebookdudes:

candyandguns:

Tumblr, can you please, PLEASE go knock some sense into these guys. This is not okay at all. 

Dunno about knocking sense into them but we can definitely publish their names.

Corbin Fowler: https://www.facebook.com/aquaman1102

Alex Fisher: https://www.facebook.com/Nephilim1

reallifedocumentarian:

angryasiangirlsunited:

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angryasiangirlsunited:

Made rebloggable by request
-Juliet

Wow, from one very disgusted Asian American man to the petulant asian man:
We often have to deal with desexualization because of our race. That’s no reason to be a patriarchy perpetuating asshole that thinks that you have a right over our sisters. Being with someone is a privilege- not a demand.
You don’t get to spout the same sort of white supremacist tropes around the desires of our sisters without being complicit in perpetuating the racism that turns our sisters into targets for assault and violence.
You need to re-examine your life and who you are hurting with this possessive patriarchal propaganda that seems to roll off your tongue so easily. 

Makeuthink666 is a white man who enjoys humiliating Asian women. Regardless, I am reblogging this because I think his words should be absorbed by more Asian men.
- Yazmine

Reblogging for update on whiteness. 

reallifedocumentarian:

angryasiangirlsunited:

reallifedocumentarian:

angryasiangirlsunited:

Made rebloggable by request

-Juliet

Wow, from one very disgusted Asian American man to the petulant asian man:

We often have to deal with desexualization because of our race. That’s no reason to be a patriarchy perpetuating asshole that thinks that you have a right over our sisters. Being with someone is a privilege- not a demand.

You don’t get to spout the same sort of white supremacist tropes around the desires of our sisters without being complicit in perpetuating the racism that turns our sisters into targets for assault and violence.

You need to re-examine your life and who you are hurting with this possessive patriarchal propaganda that seems to roll off your tongue so easily. 

Makeuthink666 is a white man who enjoys humiliating Asian women. Regardless, I am reblogging this because I think his words should be absorbed by more Asian men.

- Yazmine

Reblogging for update on whiteness. 

sexistfacebookdudes:

orangeballofpeace:

If i am in jail tomorrow for murder, you know why  (◕‿-) 
dude: wow women are hot and make me objectify them. it’s only natural (and I’m a philosopher/scientist/wise person so I’d know about what ‘natural’ means and is)woman: no it isn’t just don’t be a jerk 
dude: you don’t know me!!1! also you’re stupid. oh and also stop leaving your house

sexistfacebookdudes:

orangeballofpeace:

If i am in jail tomorrow for murder, you know why (◕‿-)

dude: wow women are hot and make me objectify them. it’s only natural (and I’m a philosopher/scientist/wise person so I’d know about what ‘natural’ means and is)

woman: no it isn’t just don’t be a jerk

dude: you don’t know me!!1! also you’re stupid. oh and also stop leaving your house

(Source: isjaka)

stfusexists:

getfatorgetfit:

If you are a girl, and you have a fitblr, and you workout, and can down a protein shake, I am just going to assume you can and do swallow after giving a bj.

If you are a jackass, and you post stupid crap like this, I am just going to assume you are never going to find out because you are a disrespectful garbage pile of a person.

Um, swallowing semen isn’t the same as drinking a protein shake. And me working out is not for anyone’s fucking entertainment. damn dense douchewaffles be thinking they’re entitled to a blowjob. That’s gross.

stfusexists:

TW: Discussion of rape culture, child molestation, racism
I think my “favorite” part of this horrible nonsense is that “pro-lifers” DO believe the first three statements according to their actions. 
“Legitimate” rape anyone? She wasn’t raped because she was unmarried? She was asleep so she didn’t say no? What was she wearing/drinking/doing that made this her fault? These are all things we’ve heard from the so-called pro-lifers - frequently.
If I recall correctly, there is a giant and powerful institution that has actively enabled, protected, and covered up for child molesters for decades. If I continue to recall correctly, the GOP has been largely silent on this issue, choosing to focusing instead on the unborn rather than deal with the suffering and abuse of those who are already born, and thus endowed with legal rights and protections. 
Plenty of people seem to approve of slavery when it comes to prison labor. Why pay the shipping costs to have things made in China when you can pay inmates $.40 a day? If you think that the racism of our laws and how they are upheld and prosecuted in our judicial system doesn’t result in slavery, you are kidding yourself. I haven’t heard pro-lifers say one damn word about all that, but if they did, I’d bet that word would be “CAPITALISM!!!”
So by their actions, it seems that pro-lifers do in fact believe in all of these things…except the one that involves a pregnant person having the right to their own body. Shocker.

stfusexists:

TW: Discussion of rape culture, child molestation, racism

I think my “favorite” part of this horrible nonsense is that “pro-lifers” DO believe the first three statements according to their actions. 

“Legitimate” rape anyone? She wasn’t raped because she was unmarried? She was asleep so she didn’t say no? What was she wearing/drinking/doing that made this her fault? These are all things we’ve heard from the so-called pro-lifers - frequently.

If I recall correctly, there is a giant and powerful institution that has actively enabled, protected, and covered up for child molesters for decades. If I continue to recall correctly, the GOP has been largely silent on this issue, choosing to focusing instead on the unborn rather than deal with the suffering and abuse of those who are already born, and thus endowed with legal rights and protections. 

Plenty of people seem to approve of slavery when it comes to prison labor. Why pay the shipping costs to have things made in China when you can pay inmates $.40 a day? If you think that the racism of our laws and how they are upheld and prosecuted in our judicial system doesn’t result in slavery, you are kidding yourself. I haven’t heard pro-lifers say one damn word about all that, but if they did, I’d bet that word would be “CAPITALISM!!!”

So by their actions, it seems that pro-lifers do in fact believe in all of these things…except the one that involves a pregnant person having the right to their own body. Shocker.

Acquaintance posts some tweet that has said hashtag “closeyourlegs.”

Morbid curiousity kicks in.

I search the hashtag on Twitter.

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OMF…HOLY MOTHER OF GAWD, WHY DID I LOOK IT UP?

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Yeah, I feel like verbally tearing ignoramuses a new one.

It’s shit like this that basically proves that I have to work even harder no matter where I go.   

It’s shit like this that makes people stay fearful and ignorant.  It’s shit like this that makes people continue to shit all over women and girls if they don’t “know their place” or fit into society’s standards of femininity (which is already being shat on when men are calling each other’s masculinity into question by calling them a girl/woman like it’s a bad thing).  It’s shit like this that makes it hard for women to even be expressive about their desires for fear of stigma.  It’s also shit like this that makes it hard for boys and men to express anything about themselves…That tough facade and feigning lack of emotion doesn’t fool me.  No.  It saddens me.

It is shit like this that make people believe that hurting and shaming others is justified.  

Kicking young people when they’re down for having sex…that sickens me.

I hate seeing people get fooled by misinformation from those who think it’s a bright idea to impose their own small-minded beliefs onto others as some form of control. And I hate that there’s often this need to be kicking young people around when they need to be empowered with honesty and knowledge. 

So young people have sex…big fucking deal.  The people who continue to contribute to toxic attitudes regarding sex need to get the fuck over themselves, stop lying to them, stop shaming them, and get some damn education of their own before they make themselves look like idiots!

The fact that I see a lot of younger people making those nasty tweets on there makes me feel…well, sorry for them.  And it also makes me very upset at the adults who fucking raised them.  Shitty attitudes do come from somewhere, afterall.

What’s also funny is that the dudes aren’t being told to close their legs.  Oh no.  It had to be the girls.  >:-/  Because apparently, it’s okay to let dudes get away with shitty ass things.  We can’t forget to teach boys and men to be respectful too.

I needed to get that rant off my chest.